Why do I fantasize about revenge even when I know it won’t help?

Revenge fantasies arrive with a certain cleanliness. They cut through the soft mess of what actually happened and replace it with a single, sharp line: you did this, and then I did that. The mind likes that kind of sentence. It has an ending built in. And even when you already know it won’t help, … Read more

Why do I fantasize about revenge even when I know it’s wrong?

Revenge shows up with a strange confidence. It doesn’t knock. It doesn’t ask whether you’re decent. It just arrives as an image, already lit, already moving, and for a moment it feels clean. You can know it’s wrong and still feel it take up space. Knowing doesn’t always touch the part of you that’s still … Read more

Why do I fantasize about revenge even when I know it won’t help?

Revenge fantasies don’t arrive with a plan. They arrive like weather. You can be washing a cup, answering a message, standing in a line, and suddenly you’re watching a scene in your head where the balance finally shifts. You don’t even have to believe in it. It still shows up. There’s a particular irritation in … Read more